When u read all the articles about don't spank your kids, do it professionally talk to them.. they will learn eventually as told by the article laa. I mean i try to follow..yes i do..its not easy! I think only 30% achievable. The rest tak boleh pakai i dunno about others but for me sometimes its not so practical to say "Iman please dont throw your puzzle everywhere, our house will look messy" when dah 8-9 times you told him over and over again.
When does your child understand serious statement? Pening and i have only 2 in my house rite now, cant imagine those with lots of children. End up i have to say "Imannnnnnnnnn... clean up" or in a more nicely manner, "If u don't clean up, i'll give away your puzzle" yikes..tu nice manner or threatening manner ..im trying to be a good mummy here, theoretically its easy, practically nope.
Anyway Iman understand now about sad, angry and happy so whenever he sees me in no mood, he will ask "mummy kenapa mummy tak happy?" This statement makes my life much easier around them .well at least for now.
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